I am thirty

I turned 30 today,
For every and each day I have been growing, learning, falling and standing up,
The best lessons are the ones learned the hard way; and these are my 30 life lessons for my 30th birthday:

1- “Be who you are because everybody else is taken”
2- Learn to let go & learn to leave when it hurts so much that you start loosing yourself
3- Don’t treat others as they treat you, treat them as who you are
4- Control your mind; because if you don’t, it will control you
5- Save money … set goals and save money for them
6- Some people will last some will pass. People come and go and that’s super fine
7- Communicate for better relationships quality
8- Love yourself. You will never be able to love anybody else (not your own kid) if you don’t love yourself enough
9- Resentment and anger towards someone is like taking poison and hoping the other to die
10- Practice happiness as a cause not as an effect: e.g. dancing because you are happy is much better than dancing to be happy
11- People are no mind readers; kindly say what you feel, what you need, and what you want
12- No matter your belief, practice the religion of love and kindness
13- Never take a decision when you are too happy, too sad or too angry
14- Always compete with yourself, not with others
15- Intentions are very powerful. Intentions direct energy
16 – See things as they are, not less, not more
17- Anicca: The law of impermanence (Nothing lasts)
18- Choose the people you surround yourself with. Hug and love the ones who make you grow and be kind to the toxic ones
19- Better regret doing things than regret not doing them
20- Stress is n° 1 cause of death in the world. remember that
21- Take care of yourself for yourself
22- The power of gifts, use it more. It is magical
23- Practice silence more
24- Don’t be afraid/ashamed of being yourself when you are with other, don’t mirror them just to fit
25- Listen to you body. When it’s sick look for the source and heal it
26- There is nothing such as overthinking, there is either positive or negative thinking
27- Include fun in everything you do, life will be much lighter
28- Don’t complain if you are doing nothing about it
29- Life is not supposed to be easy
30- Sense. what is the sense you are giving to your life?